Don't see people as a field, when you're only a weed to them...

Sometimes when you treasure someone
doesn't mean that the person treasures you as well.
and all you get is heart-ache and rejection...

Putting someone first before yourself is never a good thing,
unless that someone is a family member.
because family members will never abandon you
no matter what happens.

You may think that when you give all your heart out in a friendship or a relationship
you will receive equally as much...
but life is always unfair, and there is nothing like equality.

That is why it's best to not get overly involve.
but sometimes the more you try to build a wall...
the harder it gets to defend people from breaking it.
and when the wall of defence is broken down...
there is no other way to save yourself...